DON'T MARRY ..A MUST READ FOR SINGLES WANTING TO MARRY

FOR SINGLES PLANNING TO MARRY.
*Don't marry for sex.

*Dont marry because you are getting old.

*Dont marry because you are lonely.

*Dont marry because you mistakenly impregnated her.

*Dont marry because you don't want to
lose the person.

*Dont marry because of pressures.

*Dont marry because you like the idea OF
marriage and admire every wedding you see.

*Dont marry because all your friends are
getting married;

But, -Get married because you want to fulfill destiny.

-Get married because you want to be a
helpmate to an imperfect person who loves & accepts you
for who you are, not who you pretend to be!
-Get married because you want to fulfill your promises.
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I PRAY FOR YOU: May God help you in choosing
the right
person meant for you. And may the wrong person be disconnected away from your
life in JESUS NAME.
With faith Type Amen and Kindly leave your comments below

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

MEN,
Man, The higher you elevate your woman and treat her well, the less available she makes herself to other men. When you are stingy and treat her bad, you make her accessible to anyone she thinks will treat her better.

LADIES
Lady Never abandon a good man for a stupid reason, a jobless man, and a lazy man is never the same. He may not have today and that doesn't mean he will be lacking forever.

SO HOW DID YOU KNOW THAT SOMEONE LOVE YOU

1. When you fall in love make sure it's with somebody who treats you exactly how you deserve to be treated.

2. Love somebody who wants to know everything about you,from your favorite color to your childhood memories how you managed to survive all those years.

3. Love somebody who can make you laugh,who kisses your forehead and who notices all your flaws but chooses to see past them.

4. Love somebody who listens to whatever is on your mind,who protects you and always reminds you how blessed they are to have found you.

5. Love somebody who you can't stay mad at for more than an hour because you miss speaking to them,who knows every freckle on your face, every stretch mark on your thighs, every scar and every tear.

6. Love somebody who you can plan your future with,and most importantly love somebody who is God fearing.

7. And lastly don't forget to make them feel loved in return.

8.Ask God to blessed the person you've made your choice to love and show you the way to build the love for married purpose.

Finally Love is not for the weak at heart or nonbelievers. If you fall in love you have to believe in the strength of your heart and soul. You ought to have a strong heart to help you pull together through hard times.

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SELECTING A GOOD SPOUSE

                         

 How To Select A Good Spouse!

"Then his father and his mother said unto him, Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well."
Judges 14:3
The basic key to a good marriage is dependent largely on making the right choice right from the beginning. When we make the wrong choice we may virtually have to spend the whole time doing damage control.
What are some of the basic principles that can aid us? The principles that determined Samson's choice can help us, we can learn from his mistakes. Let's examine them.

1. The "godly counsel" of other people especially your parents, matter.
"His father and his mother said unto him". Someone said "love is blind but marriage will open your eyes." Fortunately the other people are not in love so they can see more clearly.

2. Choose a Christian.
Samson did not "Thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines."

3. Don't choose someone just because you are in love.
There are more serious considerations like character. Samson said "Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well.

4. Choose someone of kindred spirit.
"Brethren" This means someone who is similar to you. You share the same interests, passion, views, lifestyle, background, ideas etc. This helps in companionship and fellowship.

5.Finally depend on the Holy Spirit.
John 16:13 “But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.”
Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal your partner to you, and He will!... @unlimitedwordexpress

DON'T MARRY A PASTOR

DON'T MARRY A  PASTOR

Are you praying to have a Pastor as your husband, If yes, then you have a good desire, but before then take good look at this
This is what no one is telling many who is aspiring to marry Pastor.

                           DO NOT MARRY A PASTOR
*If you can't support his ministry with your time and resources please don't marry a Pastor.

*If you don't believe in his ministry, don't marry a Pastor. You must believe in everything he believes in, his doctrine, style of preaching and give him or her your total support.

*Don't marry a Pastor if you are too jealous, you will always suspect him of having an affair and end up disgracing him.

*If you want a man that will be at home with you every night don't marry a Pastor.

*If you want to eat all the time and will not be able to fast and pray with him don't marry a Pastor

*If you can't afford for him to be quiet and keep to himself for some hours and not talk to anyone. If you feel he must talk 24hrs of the day, you are about to marry a wrong person.

*If you can't give sacrificially, please don't marry a Pastor.

*If you are someone who believes the evil that people say against Pastors please don't marry one.

*If you can't obey COMMANDS, don't marry a Pastor sometimes he may be under strict instructions from God

*If you can't take nonsense from people don't marry a Pastor. We take nonsense all the time ...its part of our calling.

*If you can't forgive easily, don't marry a Pastor.

*If you want to look at all times at any expense, don't marry a Pastor. Sometimes your character and reputation will be attacked. Lies will be told on you. What you never conceived in your accused of.

*If you enjoy gossip don't marry a Pastor.

*If you want to be a society lady and not a virtuous woman please don't marry a Pastor

*If you can't nurture visions from smallness to maturity don't marry a Pastor.

*If you want to marry the man, and not the Pastor in the man, as many say today please don't marry a Pastor

*If you are not ready to feed stranger's please don't marry a pastor cause all these and many more is involve in the ministry work！

God bless you all！@unlimitedword-express